If you know me, you are probably thinking I’m going to confess a mark left (or at least a stain) by some hairbrained idea that I thought would be fun and of course safe for a woman of a certain age. But today I am moved more by the biography I’m reading. I love biographies and always feel like I learn about myself when I read them. This one is a memoir written by Barbara Bush. I am especially interested in her story, not just because I’m a woman, but because I am intrigued by how those who frequently are called upon to play second fiddle leave their mark. I met her once, had lunch with her actually when her and the then retired President Bush spoke at a company sales meeting. On stage, she was eloquent and entertaining as promised, but what most impressed me was how she acted in the intimate luncheon provided before the program started.
It made me wonder what strangers might remember about an exchange with me and I had to wince. I continue to ponder this in my interactions with people I meet. But more importantly, what will those who really know me remember most? Am I leaving behind a legacy of love, laughter and lifegiving habits? That is no small order and gives me plenty to work on in my retirement years. I am fortunate enough to have some great role models that I have admired both alive and long passed as well as my family, and a rich circle of diverse friends over the years who helped shape my world. And, I’ve been told that if I’m wise, I will learn from others accomplishments and failures. So far, I have learned the most from others accomplishments and my own failures. I’m not sure if that makes me average or not, but somehow, I don’t feel I’m alone.
It has been hinted recently that I am a bit zealous about my new diet. But when science and the Bible align, how can you not get prompted to act? I’ve never understood how to be quiet about anything that is life giving when I’m around those I love. It bubbles over and runs all over the floor like a bubble bath and a two-year-old. Come to think of it, if my legacy is that I was passionate about my beliefs and always striving to learn and grow, then maybe I won’t miss the mark so much after all. What do you want to be known for when your days on this little green ball are done?
“A good and honest life is a blessed memorial… The fear of God builds up confidence and makes a world safe for your children.” (Proverbs 10:7 & 14:26 TM)
“But as more of us do the things that matter, as more of us lead by example, others will find themselves pulled along.” (John Robbins – The Food Revolution)
“Keep moving forward on the journey…and as you go, make sure you take others with you.” (John Maxwell – The Success Journey)
Yours for a Joyful Journey,
Joyice